Patiently Anxious

I sit here and look at the two words in the title. I, among others, love a good dose of irony. When I asked for some feedback, my wife asked me “don’t you mean impatiently anxious?” That would make more sense though! Not with me! I am patient on the outside but on a scale of 1 to 10, I am hovering around a 37 on the anxiety scale! I have not been tested and I doubt there is a medical problem. So why all the anxiety (I think we can all agree that patience is a good thing so we should look at the other half of those two words!)?

businessman office mobile phone financeI am a pastor in search of a church. One of the reasons I love the Church of the Nazarene is the process one must go through in order to become a pastor. Not anyone is allowed to shepherd a flock, and that is a great thing for His Church. Just as the eleven disciples approached the replacement of Judas with discernment and prayer (Acts 1:16-26), we as Nazarenes do the same.

But hurry up already!!!

I started this blog as a form to express some of those things that God has placed on my heart as well as to give the few of you reading some insight into who I am. To start I am overly (my wife would say obnoxious) extroverted – and yes, I have been tested there! Part of that personality profile is the overwhelming desire to go and do once my mind has been made up. Once I committed to taking classes towards ordination, I completed it within two and a half years only taking one six-week period off. I did this and achieved academic excellence as my lowest grade was a 92% A-. I do not say this as a self-given pat on the back but to show you, the reader, that I believe we should excel in anything we do as if we do it directly for our Creator (1 Corinth 10:31), and to illustrate, once I have decided something, I run for it without sacrificing quality. As Nazarenes, we go through three levels of licensing with those that are ordained elders performing said interviews. black chairs and white tableI figured I wasted enough of God’s time running from His call and I need to do all I can to get my contribution “all-in.” Since we (as Nazarenes) are serious about who leads God’s people, I need to be serious about my commitment to Him.

All steps are bathed in prayer as we go along.

Where am I going with all this?

It’s a long bath! Have you ever read a daily devotion and stay there for a week? Yeah, that is me this week! With the possibility of a major move that would cross multiple state borders, many would consider this a stressful event. I remember a study in college that said moving was the most stressful event that one would go through. While there are newer studies that move it further down the stress ladder, I believe most will agree it is not something we look forward to! A mentor of mine once moved three times within three or four years! Even as local moves, he was fed up of the look of a cardboard box! I think it may be that change part that we try to avoid. One of the things I have yet to find in those studies that look at life events is “consistency” – it is simply not on those lists! Have consistency and say goodbye to anxiety! I digress! The devotion I was thinking of earlier that is visited and meditated on and prayed over deals with the stress and anxiety over change. One of the scriptures for this particular day is found in Psalm 27:14. “Wait for the Lord; Be strong and let your heart take courage; Yes, wait for the Lord.” IMG_1352Can we say the word “wait” one more time please (sorry, sarcasm is hereditary – thanks Mom and Dad!)?

I look at this short and simple verse and find it, well, isn’t all that simple. It does not matter how ready I am to take that step; I am instructed to wait on Him! The all caps indicate God our Father. It is His world, His time and HIS WILL! One of the commentaries out there says we are to “humbly resign to His will.” Furthermore, it takes courage and strength. I think this type of courage is not facing a death-defying act but more resolve in the face of the unknown. It takes strength as well. The strength that fixes the heart on Him. When I think of fixing something on another object, I picture the range of movement is removed. When we fix our heart on Him, it cannot move to the left or to the right. At this point, the anxiety has devoured all of that strength and I have to lean on the promise that in my weakness He is strong (2 Corinth 12:9)! I am sure no one else deals with this type of anxiety, right?

Does this mean an end to the internal screams at the sense of urgency I alone create? Unfortunately, not! Does it mean I can continue with the next devotion in that series? Again, a hard no for me anyway! One of the District Superintendents I submitted my resume to over four months ago writes in his letter of response: “If you are up for some fairly intensive next steps that may very well lead to nowhere, lets talk some more.” Where was this at the beginning of the search?

Anyway, here is to some more intensive steps that may not lead anywhere specific! Until then, pray for me that I end up where He wants me, when He wants me and how He wants me!

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Come on….  What are we waiting for?  Hurry up… PRAY NOW! 😊

Do it anyway.

I am a huge fan of marketing.

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I earned a degree in Business Management and loved the courses I took in marketing! I remember one of the main commercials that got my attention. I was not a fan of this sport at that time, but no one could deny the effect of what this short commercial series achieved. Here are some of the effects of what this marketing series did achieve. Increased market share of athletic shoes from 18% to 43% and sales from $877M to $9.2B (yes that is B for billion)! People would line up for $150-$200 shoes like they do for the new iPhone today! People wanted to be this person, fly like this person and play like this person! Have you figured out the campaign? Continue reading Do it anyway.

Easter Thoughts – The Hard Prayer

This is a time of year that is ripe for reflections on those that have followed God’s call to be shepherds.  We (at least I know I do as well as those that mentor me) often look to the example of Jesus in all we do. How we disciple, how we discipline, how we preach, how we teach and how we even pray all come from how the Son did all of those things. What I spend hours reflecting on is the latter of those things during this time of year.

Continue reading Easter Thoughts – The Hard Prayer

The Bitterness of Humble Pie

I deserve better. I am owed this. I have earned it! God wants me to have the best in life!

These are all commonplace phrases that run rampant in today’s society and the last one can be heard in many a TV preacher prosperity gospel message. Yet, this lesson is not a new one nor will it be one that is perfected anytime soon. Continue reading The Bitterness of Humble Pie

Take ’em to Church


“I don’t want to force my kids to go to church.” “I want them to make that decision on their own.” This is a common point of view today. One may blame the progressive left, and another may blame the alternative right that loves to live against restrictions and law. How about we remove all points of view except for the Word of God! This is a little more than a point of contention with me – as a father and a pastor. Continue reading Take ’em to Church

Instant Gratification vs. Time and Effort

For those that know me, know I love to cook. Now, I would not call myself a baker or one who loves to slave away in the kitchen. No, I am talking about manly cooking! Fire, coals, and meat are what I love to do. I can remember growing up and watching my Dad cook on the grill. This is where this passion was born. Now, I may give him grief about cooking on a gas grill versus the charcoal I prefer, but the passion was born because that is what he would do on the weekends. We would mow the yard, do the outside chores and he would barbecue chicken or ribs or a couple of steaks for that Saturday dinner. My wife converted me to the coal and I have not looked back since! One thing I have learned about grilling with coals versus gas is the preparation time. You cannot rush it. Continue reading Instant Gratification vs. Time and Effort


coffeeWe all have them. Every day, it seems is full of thousands of choices. Drive through has a mirage of choices to choose from. Go through the drive-through of your favorite coffee shop and see how things have changed. It used to be served black, with cream, or sugar or both. Now there are choices to skim, light on the foam, heavy on the foam…  you get it; much more than your usual black with 2 creams and a sugar! Continue reading Choices